My wife and I are embarking on a D/s relationship. We are monogamous, in our late 30’s and early 40’s. we’ve been together for over 20 years and have had a relationship filled with ups and downs. So far we are both enjoying our new relationship but it also presents its challenges. It is new for the both of us(we started this 4/23/13) and we are constantly communicating our way through things. Like almost everyone else, we are a work in progress.