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I had an interesting conversation with a cocktail waitress recently about how she wore the sexy outfits she did because they reaffirmed who she was.
“I do it for me.”
“Really? Lingerie, high heels, push up bra, that’s all for you?”
“Of course. I’m my own woman.”
“So, it’s not about the attention and affirmation you get from the men around you.”
“Well, that’s nice, if it’s coming from the right kind of guy, but I don’t wear what I do for them.”
“So if I came over to your house unannounced at like, 4 in the afternoon, you’d be wearing all this while you were vacuuming the house and not in sweatpants and a t-shirt?”
“Well,..no, but that’s not the point, I’m more comfortable in sweats,..”
“I see.”
It was far too easy to box her into the corner she was painting herself into, but I wont be…
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